5 February 2012, 6:35 am
If a man was casually dating a girl for about two years, but for over a year and a half, he isn't know where she lived, he would just call her, she would show up, and they would go on dates, and sleep over, and they were not using any kind of birth control, and he was giving her oral sex, and he didn't know that much about her, but he knew she was alone,without family and friends, and he was froma really small town in an obscure far away place, and she was living in a big city for the first time in her life........ And then he started building this house, and he told the casual dating friend about the house he was building, but still they were p,aging mind games with each other through the inconsistent contact and inconsistent communication throughout the casual dating, then he introduced her to his family, though he was really nervous, because she was fom a different culture, and he allowed her to develop a relationship with his sisters children, and then he continued the mind games while dating her, and the house was almost finished, and he introduced her to his father and extended family, who didn't like her because she was from a foreign culture, but he was getting ready to move into the house, and then he asked her to marry him, but he didn't want to meet her family at all, and he really isn't want to marry her, he was just asking out of obligation, then he moved into the house and invited her to move in as well. But he wouldn't let her decorate the house, he wouldn't let her put magnets on the fridge, he wouldn't allow her to have a dog, he wouldn't let her bring her clothes, because he stud best he Had too many, then he brought his two single friends to come and live in the house and they wre having all these bachelor parties and running off and intentionally uninviting the girl, and when she insisted on coming along, ignoring and neglecting her ocially like she was invisible............then making her so uncomfortable that she isn't want o live in the house. Then suddenly he started dating the other girl, and dint tell the old girlfriend from three years, then he married the new Gil right away and gave the brand new house to the new girl, that he built with the previous girl......and the new girl was accepted by the family because he was from the same culture.and he just flat left the o,d girl from three years behind to live with octane dealers Ina rented room in an unstable environment, knowing she was alone, with no friends, and no family support. But when the girl wanted o move into the house, she insisted on a lease with the guy o give her entitlement o live there comfortably, but the guy isn't want to sign a lease with her, he wanted to get married, and was asking to marry her, but without a ring, and still didn't want to meet her familybir let her have a dog. Etc..........so the girl didn't really believe him, that he wanted to get married, because of his stupid rules, so then they stopped talking for just our months, and suddenly he married this other girl, and when he broke the news to the old girl, he told her,,,,,,,,,, you never believe in me,.,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but he married someone les, and not inured yo o to singles nightclubs with his single younger, bachelor friends, wearing his wedding ring, but looking for young, nubile girls to gawk at and talk too., without his wife.........?.......................he was 28 at the time, in the singles scene for about three years. The old girlfriend tht he left behind was absolutely devastated, because she had been spending all her free time with him, and flt very misled by being introduced of the family and the house being paraded in front of her..................if you were this girl, or the guy, or the family or the new wife..........what would you think?... Read More »
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